In this empowering episode of the F*ck Saving Face podcast, host Judy Tsuei sits down with Nicole F. Smith, founder of JMS Creative Leadership Solutions and an expert in emotional intelligence. They explore their personal journeys toward living authentically and the transformative power of emotional intelligence in both personal and professional lives. Nicole shares her insights on breaking generational curses, fostering healthier relationships, and embracing one’s multifaceted identity. Tune in for practical tips on self-awareness, setting boundaries, and navigating the path to self-discovery.Key Takeaways:Understand the importance of emotional intelligence in navigating life’s challenges.Learn how to break generational curses through self-awareness and intentional living.Discover actionable tips for personal growth, including communication and boundary-setting.Embrace your unique identity and challenge societal norms to live authentically.Gain inspiration from Nicole’s powerful message: “Walk your own path. Be who you want to be. F*ck saving face on being what everyone else thinks you should be.”Want to get on the show? Support my Kickstarter and select the Podcast Guest Rewards Level!Get a sample chapter of the book: "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide" via Kickstarter: bit.ly/shamelessbook. Read it now! LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review!

In this empowering episode of the F*ck Saving Face podcast, host Judy Tsuei delves into the first step of her upcoming book, "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide." The focus is on embracing your presence unapologetically, especially for those raised in traditional Asian American households.Episode Highlights:Judy introduces her Kickstarter campaign for her book, encouraging listeners to support it at bit.ly/shameless-bookShe shares personal updates, including her NLP certification progress and the expansion of her businessThe concept of individual "blueprints" is explored, drawing from human design and Dr. Larry Farwell's work on neuroscience and quantum physicsJudy recounts a magical story about finding the book "Women Who Run With Wolves" on a beach in Kauai, emphasizing the importance of self-discoveryAn exercise from Dr. Larry Farwell's "The Science of Creating Miracles" is shared to help listeners connect with their true selvesJudy encourages listeners to reflect on what it means to "walk loud, talk loud, think out loud" in their own livesKey Takeaways:Embracing your authentic self is a journey, especially for those from cultures that emphasize harmony over individualityUnderstanding your personal "blueprint" can help you live more authenticallySmall actions and mindset shifts can lead to profound personal transformationsJudy invites listeners to support the podcast by leaving reviews and sharing it with others. She also mentions her weekly newsletter, "The Heartbeat," for those who want to stay connected between episodes.This episode sets the tone for the book's theme of empowering Asian Americans and voices of color to break through cultural taboos and embrace their true selves.Get a sample chapter of the book: "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide" via Kickstarter: bit.ly/shamelessbook. Read it now! LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review!

In this episode of the Fuck Saving Face podcast, Judy Tsuei introduces her new book, 'How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps,' aimed at empowering Asian Americans and voices of color. The conversation explores themes of cultural identity, personal growth, and the importance of mental and emotional wellness. Judy shares her journey of breaking free from societal expectations and the significance of belonging, while also discussing the ten steps outlined in her book that encourage listeners to embrace their true selves and navigate family dynamics. The episode culminates in a reflection on the relationship between money and self-worth, emphasizing that true value comes from within, not from financial success.Get a sample chapter of the book: "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide" via Kickstarter: bit.ly/shamelessbook. Read it now! LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review!

Join us today as host Judy, uncovers the behind-the-scenes of a passion project turned book, that launches next season. Delve into the enriching experiences and connections fostered through the storytelling process. Learn about the profound impact of broadening the narrative scope to include diverse perspectives and the emotional significance of creating content that transcends boundaries. Explore the transformative power of authentic storytelling in building meaningful relationships. Get ready to embark on an inspiring journey towards a life filled with joy, empowerment, and unapologetic authenticity.   Tune in and unleash your inner power to create the life you truly deserve.Get a sample chapter of my book: "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide." Read it now! LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review!

🎙️ In this powerful episode, we chat with Dr. Stephanie J. Wong, a licensed clinical psychologist, entrepreneur, and author of "Cancel the Filter: Realities of a Psychologist, Podcaster, and Working Mother of Color."Dr. Wong is the brain behind the award-winning "Color of Success" podcast and a passionate advocate for mental health, especially within the Asian American community.Together, we dive into the real challenges of staying authentic while juggling entrepreneurship and mental health, especially as a woman of color.What's in This Episode?Dr. Wong's Journey:From high school trauma to becoming a leading mental health professional and podcaster, Dr. Wong shares her inspiring story. She opens up about the importance of being genuine in both her professional and personal life and how this has shaped her career and interactions.Balancing Act:We discuss her experiences as a working mom and dive deep into her book "Cancel the Filter." Dr. Wong's mission to break down mental health stigmas in the Asian American community is at the heart of our conversation.Key Takeaways:Authenticity in Leadership:Dr. Wong talks about the fine line between sharing the founder's journey and not undermining one's authority. She emphasizes the need to stay true to oneself.Mental Health Advocacy:Drawing from her own experiences, Dr. Wong underscores the importance of open mental health conversations, especially in high-pressure environments and communities of color.Support and Empowerment:We highlight the power of women supporting women, particularly in professional settings, and offer practical advice on navigating motherhood and career challenges.This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in mental health, authenticity, and the multifaceted experiences of women of color today.More About Dr. Stephanie J. WongDr. Stephanie J. Wong, Ph.D., is an Asian American licensed clinical psychologist, entrepreneur, BTS ARMY member, founder of the award-winning "Color of Success" Podcast, and author of Cancel the Filter: Realities of a Psychologist, Podcaster, and Working Mother of Color. She works in private practice with tech professionals, most of whom are ethnic minorities, and at a hospital serving military veterans. Her skills in clinical interviewing have led to insightful conversations with diverse podcast guests, including Margaret Cho, about career advancement and addressing mental health and cultural identity.Dr. Wong is also a keynote speaker in academic, entertainment, and corporate settings, sharing her expertise in Asian American mental health, diversity training, and treating anxiety, depression, substance use, work-related stress, and relationship and cultural concerns.Join us for an enlightening conversation with Dr. Wong and gain valuable insights into balancing professional success with personal well-being.Read the blog here.** There mayGet a sample chapter of my book: "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide." Read it now! LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review!

Have you ever felt like an imposter in your own life? I know I have. Jule Kim sheds light on the reality of imposter syndrome in our latest discussion. We explore how the relentless pursuit of external validation can eclipse our internal compass. Tune in to hear our thoughts on finding genuine fulfillment. As an Asian American and person of color, it's crucial to understand the 'why' behind your boundaries. Today, Jule Kim and I discuss the importance of setting them, not as barriers to others, but as bridges to our own needs and desires. Overcoming the guilt associated with self-care can be tough, but it's a vital step toward personal fulfillment. More episode highlights: Jule Kim's personal journey as an Asian AmericanCareer path and challenges facedImposter syndrome and self-worthCultural and societal influences on Asian Americans and people of colorUpbringing as a Korean American in AlabamaPressure to conform to societal expectationsSetting boundaries and the challenges of asserting needs and desiresNavigating cultural identity and personal fulfillmentInsights into complexities of societal expectations and personal accomplishmentsMore about Jule Kim: https://www.wildheartedwords.com/podcast/118Get a sample chapter of my book: "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide." Read it now! LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review!

Join us for an eye-opening conversation with Elaine Lin Hering, author of "Unlearning Silence," as she delves into the crucial journey of breaking through silence to empower mental and emotional health — especially for Asian Americans and voices of color. From her personal journey as a high-achieving Asian woman (she's the one our Asian tiger parents compared us to!) to the urgent need to close the gap in leadership and create supportive work environments, Elaine shares invaluable insights and actionable advice. Discover why choosing a different path and rejecting the status quo are essential for personal growth, and how imposter syndrome and social structures can hinder authentic expression. Hear the emotional impact of sharing personal stories and the transformative power of transparency and language in reducing isolation and pain. From embracing imperfection to building trust and love in relationships, this episode unpacks the keys to fostering open communication, challenging harmful habits, and creating safe spaces for growth. Tune in to an empowering conversation that celebrates the power of finding your voice and breaking the silence.Get a sample chapter of my book: "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide." Read it now! LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review!

Join me in this captivating episode as I sit down with Fiona Kong, the inspiring founder of Home Sweet Homes Journal.Fiona Kong's journey from adversity to triumph is nothing short of remarkable. As a single mompreneur, she transformed personal challenges into opportunities. After experiencing separation and job loss in 2019, Fiona courageously launched Home Sweet Homes Journal during the pandemic. Her driving force? To support not only her own son but co-parented children worldwide.Delving into her own childhood trauma, Fiona recognized a critical need for emotional support in children. Thus, she crafted journals containing the nurturing elements she longed for as a child. The Home Sweet Homes journal, along with the All About Me, by Us journal (suitable for any family dynamic), are empowering future generations by instilling emotional intelligence, communication skills, and fostering stronger parent-child connections.Within these journals lie daily prompts, affirmation themes, and sections for co-parenting schedules. Fiona passionately underscores the significance of emotional regulation and open communication between children and parents. Through reflection and repair, these journals serve as invaluable tools in constructing resilient parent-child relationships and laying the groundwork for a brighter future.Email | fionakong@homesweethomesjournal.comWebsite | www.homesweethomesjournal.comGet a sample chapter of my book: "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide." Read it now! LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review!

In this episode, we're diving deep into the enlightening wisdom of Sana Akhand, a marriage coach whose out-of-the-box approach to relationships has captured hearts worldwide.Sana shares her refreshing take on reinvigorating relationships, underlining the importance of creating space for oneself and one's partner. Using her expertise, she explores how epigenetics can profoundly shape our relationships, shedding light on how ancestral patterns impact our present connections.At the core of Sana's philosophy lies the crucial practice of inner work and healing. She passionately urges listeners to break free from societal pressures, guiding them on a journey toward uncovering genuine happiness and contentment in their relationships.Throughout our conversation, Sana emphasizes the harmony of light and shadow within both life and relationships, urging us to embrace every aspect of ourselves and our partnerships. Her personal narrative of living separately from her husband struck a chord with audiences, sparking a viral wave of inspiration for couples to explore unconventional paths to deepen their bond.Join us as we delve into the profound insights of Sana Akhand, and embark on a journey to discover a fresh perspective on love, healing, and growth in relationships.Get a sample chapter of my book: "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide." Read it now! LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review!

In this episode of the F*ck Saving Face podcast, host Judy Tsuei takes listeners on a captivating journey through the depths of healing, empowerment, and the pursuit of authenticity. With raw honesty and relatable anecdotes, Judy delves into the importance of finding a therapist who shares your cultural background and the transformative power of having them as part of your support network.But that's just the beginning. Judy fearlessly explores the intricacies of ensuring her forthcoming book makes a positive impact while shining a spotlight on trauma-informed care. Through personal reflections, she reveals her own battles with the fear of happiness and the lingering effects of authoritarian parenting, offering insights into rewiring the mind and conquering self-doubt.Listeners are invited to join Judy as she uncovers the secrets to building trust in relationships, fostering a supportive team culture, and navigating the complexities of trauma healing with resilience and grace. With each revelation, Judy underscores the importance of celebrating achievements, embracing self-worth, and healing intergenerational wounds to make a meaningful difference in the world.This episode is a rallying cry for authenticity, genuine connections, and prioritizing self-care and renewal. Get ready to embark on an inspiring journey towards a life filled with joy, empowerment, and unapologetic authenticity. Tune in and unleash your inner power to create the life you truly deserve.Get a sample chapter of my book: "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide." Read it now! LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review!

In this episode, Judy Tsuei discusses the importance of mental health and overcoming cultural norms with Misa Chen, the founder of The Authentic Asian. These two powerful founders explore the biases and stereotypes faced by Asian American women in business and the need for a supportive community. They're direct, honest, and authentic as they encourage AANHPI women everywhere to embrace individuality and break free from societal expectations.As a former model who graced the runway for brands like Neutrogena and Target, Misa highlights the impact of representation in media. She has the distinction of being ranked as the 23rd most viewed woman on LinkedIn worldwide and #1 most viewed Asian American woman nationwide with 16 million+ views per month. Her past speaking clients include Harvard Business School, UCLA, USC, and the University of Washington. She has been featured in Inc. Magazine's 30 under 30 Entrepreneurs, Forbes Women to Watch, LinkedIn Top Voices, and as a serial entrepreneur on the Food Network’s Great Food Truck Race embarrassing herself in front of over 60 million viewers worldwide.Key TakeawaysAddressing mental health is crucial in the Asian community, where it's often stigmatized and overlooked.Asian American women face biases and stereotypes, such as being perceived as submissive or aggressive, which can hinder their professional growth.Creating a supportive community for Asian American women is essential for overcoming cultural norms and empowering each other.Representation in media plays a significant role in shaping perceptions and breaking stereotypes.Get a sample chapter of my book: "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide." Read it now! LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review!

Welcome back to another awesome episode of the F*ck Saving Face podcast! Today, Judy Tsuei takes listeners on a real journey through her book in progress, 'How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps, a Modern Asian American Guide.'Get ready to dive deep into some serious topics with Judy. She talks about the importance of expressing your feelings, especially when it comes to relationships. Judy opens up about her own struggles with understanding and sharing her emotions, especially with family.Throughout the episode, Judy shares bits and pieces from her book that cover things like body image, rebelling against expectations, and how our parents' actions can really impact how we see ourselves. But don't worry, it's not all heavy stuff! Judy also talks about finding strength in tough times and how you can still create an amazing life, no matter what you've been through.So, if you're ready to get real about emotions, relationships, and finding your own path, you won't want to miss this episode. Tune in for some relatable stories, valuable insights, and a whole lot of inspiration.Get a sample chapter of my book: "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide." Read it now! LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review!

In this episode, I interview Anna Hsu, a self-worth coach, about the journey to self-love and compassion. Growing up in traditional Asian households, we often face immense pressure to conform to strict standards of success, academic achievement, and filial piety! This pressure can lead to feelings of inadequacy, self-doubt, and a constant need to prove one's worthiness. Moreover, navigating between two cultures—balancing traditional Asian values with Western ideals—can create internal conflicts and identity struggles, making it challenging to develop a strong sense of self-love and acceptance. Anna shares her personal story of growing up in a traditional Asian household and feeling the pressure to constantly prove her worth. She also discusses the importance of understanding and having compassion for our parents' journeys and the impact they have on our own self-worth. Best of all, Anna provides tools and practices for embarking on the path to self-love and emphasizes the power of celebrating ourselves and others.She's even gifting my listeners a complimentary Gifted Clarity & Breakthrough Session! Book here. Get a sample chapter of my book: "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide." Read it now! LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review!

Ever grappled with the feeling of being stuck between your achievements and the nagging doubt of unworthiness? A shift in perspective can change everything. I learned this through my father's journey from a traumatic accident in Taiwan to the life-altering move to the U.S. for his children's future. This story of sacrifice and love is just one of the many untold narratives from our parents' generation.We often seek control when faced with the inevitable unknown. My latest podcast episode touches on my preoccupation with death and how that shaped my life's outlook. Join me as I share the insights gathered from living in the delicate balance of what we can and cannot control. In my latest episode, I dive deep into this very space with 3 sample chapters from my upcoming book: The 'Space In Between' shows how we navigate our self-worth amidst success and uncertaintyAt 78, my father's attire remains unchanged: a cap, button-down shirt, and jeans. This image of simplicity belies his relentless work ethic, a theme I explore in a chapter called "Dad." His dedication to work, a silent expression of love, shapes my understanding of commitment. Trauma often hides in plain sight. The chapter, "Fa Zhan," which means punishment in Mandarin, reveals the chilling reality of emotional and physical abuse I experienced. This chapter isn't just my story — it's a voice for many who have endured similar trials. Tune in today to this podcast episode about Battling Demons.Get a free 7-Day Rewrite Your Reality course to get the exact mindset shifts to create a life you love in under 10 minutes a day — delivered directly to your inbox. Sign up now. LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD?Help us get more content like this out into the world! Support our podcast or make a donation. Go to paypal.me/judytsuei and type in the amount. Since it’s PayPal, it's easy and secure. Don’t have a PayPal account? No worries ... the right link is above Please leave your review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review! Bonus step: Subscribe if you’re not already to get notified when an episode drops every Monday! A huge thank you for listening to the show and sharing it with your tribe!

Ever think about how much more powerful culturally competent therapy is for people of color?In this episode, I interview Asian American women authors and therapists, Susan Lee and Linda Yoon — they're the co-directors of the Yellow Chair Collective and co-authors of "Where I Belong: Healing Trauma and Embracing Asian American Identity." The Yellow Chair Collective is a mental health sanctuary that champions culturally competent therapy for the Asian American community. We dive deep into the complexities of healing trauma, embracing our Asian American identities, and the transformative power of art and storytelling.Here's a sneak peek of the treasures we uncovered:🎨 The Art of Language: Soo Jin Lee shared her journey from feeling voiceless due to language barriers to expressing herself through art, and eventually, writing a book. It's a testament to the power of creativity in finding one's voice.🧠 ADHD and Identity: Linda opened up about her late diagnosis of ADHD, challenging the stereotypes and misconceptions about neurodivergence, especially in Asian communities. Her story is a beacon of hope for anyone feeling misunderstood.🏠 Building a Collective: We discuss the birth of the Yellow Chair Collective, a mental health sanctuary that champions culturally competent therapy for the Asian American community. It's about creating a space where our stories are heard and validated.🔄 Unlearning to Relearn: We challenge ingrained beliefs, set healthy boundaries, and redefine what health and wellness mean within our cultural contexts.💔 Breaking the Cycle: We explore the importance of authenticity and community in dismantling the cultural norm of 'saving face.' It's about being true to ourselves and supporting each other in that journey.This episode is packed with heartfelt stories, eye-opening insights, and a whole lot of soul. It's not just a podcast episode — it's a movement towards a more understanding and compassionate world.If you're curious to learn more, if you're seeking connection, or if you just need a reminder that your story matters, tune in to the latest episode. Let's make our stories beautiful together!And remember, your support is the heartbeat of this show. If you find value in our conversations, please consider leaving a review on iTunes. It helps more than you know.Until next time, stay connected and sign up for my weekly newsletter at wildheartedwords.com – it's a little burst of thoughtfulness I'm told is the highlight of many inboxes.Get a free 7-Day Rewrite Your Reality course to get the exact mindset shifts to create a life you love in under 10 minutes a day — delivered directly to your inbox. Sign up now. LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD?Help us get more content like this out into the world! Support our podcast or make a donation. Go to paypal.me/judytsuei and type in the amount. Since it’s PayPal, it's easy and secure. Don’t have a PayPal account? No worries ... the right link is above Please leave your review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review! Bonus step: Subscribe if you’re not already to get notified when an episode drops every Monday! A huge thank you for listening to the show and sharing it with your tribe!

In the latest episode, I open the pages of my life to you, sharing the raw and real experiences that have shaped me. I read a chapter of my upcoming memoir tentatively titled, "It Began in the Darkness" when I was left in an incubator by my parents because I was born a month premature.Here's a sampling: "Born one month early, trained to live without touch, in the incubator starting at 6:15 a.m. on July 16 on Sunset Boulevard. I'm much older than my siblings, so I remember when they were born. I remember their grey eyes and how my grandmother, my mother, said they could not yet see clearly. They only knew shapes. Smell, touch. I watched as my youngest brother's eyes became solid, began to see the environment he was born into. The screaming so loudly that it was as though we all went deaf. The tyrannical nature of my father beating into us when his rage went beyond what his yelling could accomplish. The hysterical nature of my mother when she went into her bipolar fits and spurts of completely unsanctioned and unacceptable behavior, to demanding that we love her, that we pay her respect, that we don't talk back. But what was there really to say anyway? My youngest brother's eyes speak more than his words will ever reveal. In the old house on Toland Way, in the ghetto of Eagle Rock, before it became hipster, I remember the way the sun would shine through the sliding glass door that separated the room where my sister and I slept on our bunk bed from the same room where my mother and father shared their bed."Heart-to-heart interactions can be transformative. The past doesn't determine the future. Because I also reveal the first time my Chinese father said, "I love you" to me in college after my boyfriend's father unexpectedly dies of a heart attack, and it turns out to be a wake-up call in so many ways.I'd be honored if you like this episode, if you would share, rate, and review this podcast so more people can feel less alone in the world.Get a free 7-Day Rewrite Your Reality course to get the exact mindset shifts to create a life you love in under 10 minutes a day — delivered directly to your inbox. Sign up now. LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD?Help us get more content like this out into the world! Support our podcast or make a donation. Go to paypal.me/judytsuei and type in the amount. Since it’s PayPal, it's easy and secure. Don’t have a PayPal account? No worries ... the right link is above Please leave your review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review! Bonus step: Subscribe if you’re not already to get notified when an episode drops every Monday! A huge thank you for listening to the show and sharing it with your tribe!

I'm thrilled to share with you the latest episode of our podcast. This week, I have the pleasure of hosting Ái  Wang, a Vietnamese-born, Texas-bred filmmaker, and co-founder of TÁPI Story, a production company that tells human-centered stories told from a systemic perspective with compassion, empathy, and dignity.Ái's journey is a fascinating one, filled with cultural exploration, self-discovery, and a passion for storytelling. Born in Vietnam, she emigrated to Texas at the age of five and grew up bicultural. Her early experiences in Vietnam working in a children's shelter shaped her life and work philosophies.Despite starting her career in education and youth development, Ái found her true calling in filmmaking in her early 30s. She shares her journey as a creative, from signing up for a media and storytelling course in Phnom Penh to co-founding TÁPI Story.Here are some key takeaways from our conversation:Embrace the Unknown: Ái emphasizes the importance of stepping outside of your comfort zone and experiencing different cultures and perspectives.The Power of Storytelling: Ái believes in the transformative power of storytelling through various mediums, from films to YouTube, in expanding our understanding of the world.Unmasking Ourselves: We delve into the concept of masking, especially among women, and the importance of being true to ourselves.I hope Ái's story inspires you as much as it inspired me. So, grab your headphones, find a comfy spot, and dive into this conversation.As always, thank you for your support. Don't forget to leave a review if you enjoy this episode and stay connected through my website!Get a free 7-Day Rewrite Your Reality course to get the exact mindset shifts to create a life you love in under 10 minutes a day — delivered directly to your inbox. Sign up now. LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD?Help us get more content like this out into the world! Support our podcast or make a donation. Go to paypal.me/judytsuei and type in the amount. Since it’s PayPal, it's easy and secure. Don’t have a PayPal account? No worries ... the right link is above Please leave your review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review! Bonus step: Subscribe if you’re not already to get notified when an episode drops every Monday! A huge thank you for listening to the show and sharing it with your tribe!

Excavating through old writings, I discovered a piece titled "Reiki and the Reappearance of My Grandmother," a vivid recounting of the end of a relationship, my struggle with an eating disorder, and my decision to prioritize my well-being. There's a narrative power in our personal histories, the lessons we've learned, and the paths we've walked. Grandmothers have a special place in our hearts. Mine had a profound impact on my life. As our roles reversed in her later years, I cherished our walks and the wisdom she imparted. After her passing, I discovered an old video that confirmed her love for me, a moment of comfort amidst overwhelming emotions. In an emotionally charged session with a medium, I connected with my deceased grandmother. The experience filled me with a mix of longing and reassurance. To this day, I hold on to her words — she is always with me. The spiritual encounter has become an integral part of my memoir.Today's episode features memoir excerpts about my grandmother, food, and love. Despite the joy of Saturday morning pancakes at McDonald's with my dad to the simplicity of our home-cooked meals, my relationship with food became more complicated, shaped by cultural and personal factors. Looking back, I see the evolution of my understanding and relationship with food.Tune in today for imperfect excerpts of my book that people have been saying they simply want more, and more, and more of!Get a free 7-Day Rewrite Your Reality course to get the exact mindset shifts to create a life you love in under 10 minutes a day — delivered directly to your inbox. Sign up now. LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD?Help us get more content like this out into the world! Support our podcast or make a donation. Go to paypal.me/judytsuei and type in the amount. Since it’s PayPal, it's easy and secure. Don’t have a PayPal account? No worries ... the right link is above Please leave your review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review! Bonus step: Subscribe if you’re not already to get notified when an episode drops every Monday! A huge thank you for listening to the show and sharing it with your tribe!

As a podcaster, I have the privilege of engaging in enlightening conversations with a variety of individuals. In this podcast episode, my guest Jerry Won is a keynote speaker, creative entrepreneur, and advocate for representation. Jerry is the founder and CEO of Just Like Media, an Asian storytelling company, which includes the award-winning Dear Asian Americans podcast — he's even interviewed Kamala Harris a couple of times! He’s the founder of World Class Speakers and the upcoming Asian Speaker Conference. His work has been recognized by notable organizations such as South by Southwest, Harvard Business School, Google, Pepsi, and more.In this episode, Jerry shares his personal journey, from being fired from his corporate job to becoming a successful content creator and speaker. He emphasizes the importance of sharing stories and investing in the community.  We discuss the challenges faced by marginalized groups, particularly in the context of social media, and why it's essential not to worry about what others think as you build the life of your dreams.Here are just a couple of pivotal key quotes (you'll need to tune in to get the context!):Jerry Won, 00:07:46: "We never ask white people about that stuff."Jerry Won, 00:19:14, "You should put it out there because nobody cares."Jerry Won, 00:21:54, "There's been 100 billion human beings alive on this planet, you don't matter."Jerry Won, 00:36:12, "That's it, that's the question that I want to spend an hour asking people about."Jerry Won, 00:47:37, "Can you look them in the eye and say yes, I am carrying the legacy of our family and carrying the work of all of us forward to make this a country that's safer for Asian Americans to raise our children to be the next generation of leaders?"Get a free 7-Day Rewrite Your Reality course to get the exact mindset shifts to create a life you love in under 10 minutes a day — delivered directly to your inbox. Sign up now. LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD?Help us get more content like this out into the world! Support our podcast or make a donation. Go to paypal.me/judytsuei and type in the amount. Since it’s PayPal, it's easy and secure. Don’t have a PayPal account? No worries ... the right link is above Please leave your review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review! Bonus step: Subscribe if you’re not already to get notified when an episode drops every Monday! A huge thank you for listening to the show and sharing it with your tribe!

Join us for a compelling journey as Judy Tsuei shares her deeply personal experiences, unraveling childhood secrets, cultural clashes, and the complexities surrounding pleasure and taboo — as she reads an excerpt from her upcoming memoir. In this episode, Judy takes us through poignant moments that shaped her understanding of family, identity, and the unspoken dynamics that influenced her early years:The Forbidden Act - 00:12:05Judy recounts a childhood memory where curiosity and innocence collide with cultural expectations. Secrets unfold as she navigates the boundaries of pleasure and parental disapproval, revealing the intricate web of family dynamics.Concealed Desires - 00:13:02As Judy grapples with societal norms, she delves into the complexities of communication within her multicultural household. Unanswered questions linger, highlighting the clash between cultural silence and personal exploration.Awkward Discoveries - 00:14:41In a vulnerable moment, Judy accidentally stumbles upon her parents' intimacy, challenging conventional notions of family dynamics. The unexpected encounter prompts a surreal response, blurring the lines between parental roles and personal boundaries.Weekend Escapes - 00:17:30Judy shares the challenges of a weekend routine, offering a glimpse into the demanding lifestyle of immigrant parents. The juxtaposition of mundane tasks and the quest for identity sets the stage for a unique coming-of-age narrative.Video Store Chronicles - 00:21:07In the backdrop of a video store owned by relatives, Judy unveils the realities of her adolescent world. A mix of cultural exposure and the mundane responsibilities of a family-owned business shape her perspective on relationships and societal expectations.A Glimpse Behind the Curtain - 00:24:37The podcast explores a hidden facet of the video store, shedding light on the adult world through Judy's observant eyes. As she grapples with newfound awareness, the podcast confronts the delicate balance between innocence and exposure.Join us as Judy Tsuei reflects on these impactful moments, weaving a narrative that transcends cultural boundaries and delves into the universal themes of family, identity, and the pursuit of self-discovery.**Disclaimer: This episode contains explicit content and may not be suitable for all audiences.Connect with Judy on LinkedIn, where she'll be sharing even more valuable content. Share your thoughts on this episode with her on Instagram!Get a free 7-Day Rewrite Your Reality course to get the exact mindset shifts to create a life you love in under 10 minutes a day — delivered directly to your inbox. Sign up now. LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD?Help us get more content like this out into the world! Support our podcast or make a donation. Go to paypal.me/judytsuei and type in the amount. Since it’s PayPal, it's easy and secure. Don’t have a PayPal account? No worries ... the right link is above Please leave your review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review! Bonus step: Subscribe if you’re not already to get notified when an episode drops every Monday! A huge thank you for listening to the show and sharing it with your tribe!