In this candid and eye-opening episode of F*ck Saving Face, Judy Tsuei sits down with Asian matchmaker Cassindy Chao to explore the complexities of love, relationships, and intimacy within the Asian American community. Cassindy shares her journey from a high-powered career in finance to a purpose-driven path as a matchmaker, helping people unlearn cultural conditioning and find authentic love. They discuss the blind spots many Asian clients face, from people-pleasing tendencies to stereotypes around desirability, and dive into the importance of boundaries, self-discovery, and vulnerability in relationships. This episode isn't just about matchmaking—it's about breaking free from the performance-based expectations that keep us from experiencing true connection. Tune in for raw, honest insights, a bit of humor, and a whole lot of heart.Order an early copy of "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide" via Kickstarter: bit.ly/shamelessbook. LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review!