In this episode of the F*ck Saving Face podcast, Judy Tsuei interviews authenticity life coach Betty Chan, exploring themes of mental health, cultural identity, and the impact of authoritarian parenting. They discuss the concept of code switching, the importance of finding safety and authenticity, and the Japanese art of kintsugi as a metaphor for embracing imperfections. The conversation delves into managing emotions, particularly anger, and the coaching process as a journey of self-discovery. Ultimately, they emphasize the value of gentleness over toughness in personal growth and relationships.Support the Kickstarter before it's over: "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide" via Kickstarter: bit.ly/shamelessbook. Read it now! LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review!