In this powerful episode of F*ck Saving Face, Judy Tsuei dives deep into Step 5 of her upcoming book, How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide. This chapter challenges cultural taboos around sexuality, self-care, and pleasure, offering a raw, vulnerable exploration of how these topics intersect with personal identity and family dynamics. Judy opens up about her own experiences, reflecting on how intergenerational trauma shapes our understanding of self-worth and pleasure.A heartfelt thank you to the 144 backers who helped Judy surpass her Kickstarter campaign goal, raising over $10,000 to bring this book to life. She shares how women of color, especially, are often conditioned to overperform and avoid celebrating their successes. In this episode, Judy invites listeners to reconsider their relationship with pleasure, advocating for the right to feel good without guilt. She reflects on how shifting her own parenting approach has empowered her daughter to embrace body autonomy and privacy. This episode is a must-listen for those seeking to heal generational wounds and live authentically, unapologetically, and shamelessly.Resources:Order a copy of your book via Kickstarter for How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American GuideSubscribe to Judy's newsletter for more insights: judytsuei.comGet In Touch:Website: JudyTsuei.comInstagram: @judytsueiThank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review on iTunes to help others find this show and be part of this transformative journey.Support the Kickstarter before it's over: "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide" via Kickstarter: bit.ly/shamelessbook. Read it now! LIKE WHAT YOU HEARD? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts! It helps our message get in front of more people. Here's how: Step 1: Go to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1554330617 Step 2: Click “View on Apple Podcasts” Step 3: Click “Ratings and Reviews” Step 4: Click to rate and leave a short review!