TRIGGER WARNING: In this episode, my guest and I dive into the following topic: Domestic Violence. If you need to pause or stop listening to this episode, please honour that. Thank you. When society tells you, you should shut up and be the person the world wants you to be, it makes you a great pretender. After 19 years of marriage, when she turned 40, Martha Mok decided she didn't want to pretend anymore. She did not want to be what society thought she was. She wanted to be WHO SHE KNEW she was. She wanted to feel empowered. She wanted to feel strong. She wanted a voice. She wanted confidence. Well, Martha found it and now has so much confidence she teaches it to others! In 12 months, Martha built her coaching business from zero to six figures and was featured in Yahoo Finance as the top 1% confidence, business coach in Australia. She is motivational speaker, NLP Master Practitioner, a multiple book author, a confidence coach for women, and a business coach for the beauty industry. I invite you to join our conversation as Martha and I discuss: Asian Background Culture Bullying Isolation Imposter Syndrome Verbal abuse Trauma Therapy Confidence Fear Forgiving Yourself Ask Honourable Mentions https://www.itdidntbreakme.com/ (Share how YOU overcame a situation) http://www.inquiriesjournal.com/articles/1777/why-are-south-asian-immigrant-women-vulnerable-to-domestic-violence (Why Are South Asian Immigrant Women Vulnerable to Domestic Violence?) https://www.apa.org/gradpsych/2013/11/fraud (Feel like a fraud?) https://growingupbilingual.com/best-ways-help-child-reach-full-potential/ (Best Ways To Help Your Child Reach Their Full Potential) https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-mindful-self-express/201908/how-traumas-create-negative-patterns-in-relationships (How Traumas Create Negative Patterns in Relationships) Where can you find Martha Mok? FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/marthamoksuperconfidencecoach (https://www.facebook.com/marthamoksuperconfidencecoach) LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/martha-mok-superconfidencecoach (https://www.linkedin.com/in/martha-mok-superconfidencecoach) YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCatVW_JUwfJ2q1xCp8lWIhA (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCatVW_JUwfJ2q1xCp8lWIhA) Website: http://www.superconfidencecoaching.com/ (http://www.superconfidencecoaching.com) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/superconfidencecoaching/ (https://www.instagram.com/superconfidencecoaching/) ————— This podcast is hosted by https://www.authenticallybeyou.com/ (Bianca Kesha Hughes). Known for authenticity and heart-work services, Bianca is the ultimate trailblazer in the mental health and wellness field as a therapist, coach, speaker, and podcast host, inspiring her audience to let go of the illusion of perfectionism. Ready to learn more? Contact her https://www.authenticallybeyou.com/ (here)! ————— If you would love to connect with Bianca, join her in these following spaces: https://authentically-be-you.ck.page/3f2e85ebda (Insights and Inspirations) https://www.itdidntbreakme.com (Podcast Website) https:// https://www.facebook.com/authenticallybu (Facebook) https://www.instagram.com/authenticallybeyou (Instagram) Interested in inviting Bianca to speak so she can inspire your audience?https://www.authenticallybeyou.com/biancaspeaks ( Click here) and fill out a short form. ————— Have you been moved by what you heard in this week's episode of "It Didn't Break Me"? I invite you to leave an honest review of how this episode impacted you. Also, share this podcast with a friend. We all have a friend that needs it! Song Credit: Encore by King Sis This is a https://crackersinsoup.com/ (Crackers In Soup) production.