Empowering women (and the partners who love them) to live their best mid lives. Combining the power of mind-work, body-science and relationships, I joyously smash the societal barriers that are keeping us from living our best intimate lives. Whether you are young or past menopause, single or in a long-term relationship, it is never too late or too early to realize YOU ARE NOT BROKEN. With humor, candor and ease, I break down the stories that we have been told about being sexual beings, to help us play, and normalize our intimacy and health. Nothing in this podcast is personal medical advice, of course.
May 10, 2026
The Gut-Brain-Hormone Connection in Midlife with Cynthia Thurlow - Explore how hormonal shifts, the microbiome, and lifestyle factors intertwine to impact women's health during midlife. Cynthia Thurlow shares insights on gut health, hormone therapy, and debunks common misconceptions. This episode offers practical advice for optimizing wellness through personalized approaches.
Key Topics:
The emerging importance of the gut microbiome in menopausal health
How hormones like estrogen influence colon cancer risk and overall health
The role of lifestyle factors (diet, stress, antibiotics) on microbiome integrity
Advances in hormone therapy, including the potential for microbiome restoration
The impact of medications like GLP-1 agents on inflammation and weight
Strategies for improving digestion, stool health, and addressing SIBO
The myth of genetics being destiny—hormones as a modifiable factor
Predatory practices in vaginal health treatments and how to ensure informed choices
The significance of fiber: how to increase it safely and effectively
Practical daily habits to support gut motility and overall wellness
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00:47:20
May 03, 2026
Episode 369: Dr. Kelly Casperson, interviewed by Sara Reardon
What happens when a urologic surgeon who has spent years treating women's bladder and sexual health sits down to answer every question she wishes her patients had asked sooner? You get this episode.
In a role reversal from her usual hosting chair, Dr. Kelly Casperson is interviewed by Sara Reardon for a wide-ranging, myth-busting conversation on perimenopause, hormone therapy, and what it actually means to advocate for yourself in a medical system that has historically under-served women. No gatekeeping. No fear-mongering. Just the science, the nuance, and the permission to want more.
Perimenopause is not just hot flashes. The hormonal shifts of perimenopause and menopause affect your bladder, your sleep, your joints, your skin, your mood, and your sex life — often years before your period stops. Kelly breaks down what's actually happening biologically and why so many women are told their symptoms are "just aging."
Local estrogen and systemic HRT are not the same thing — and you may need both. Vaginal estrogen treats the tissue. Systemic hormone therapy treats the whole person. Kelly explains the difference, who benefits from each, and how to have an informed conversation with your provider about what's right for you.
DHEA and testosterone belong in the conversation. These hormones are not just for men. Kelly covers the evidence for testosterone and DHEA in women's health — including delivery methods, indications, and why so many women are never offered them.
Finding a knowledgeable provider is hard. Here's how to do it. Not every clinician is trained in hormone therapy. Kelly talks about how to identify providers who are, and how to self-educate enough to advocate effectively in any appointment.
Gut health, exercise, and alcohol all matter — but not instead of hormones. Lifestyle strategies can amplify hormone therapy; they're not a replacement for it. Kelly cuts through the supplement noise and explains what the evidence actually supports.
Gender bias is real, and naming it is the first step. From the Women's Health Initiative fallout to the way women's pain is routinely minimized, Kelly addresses the systemic forces that have shaped (and limited) what women are offered — and how to push back.
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01:06:36
Apr 26, 2026
Unlocking Brain Health: Insights with Dr. Louisa Nicola.
Explore the fascinating world of neuroscience and preventative health with Dr. Louisa Nicola, a neurophysiologist dedicated to understanding and combating neurodegenerative diseases like Alzheimer’s. This episode dives deep into brain biology, the impact of hormones, lifestyle factors, and cutting-edge research on neuroprotection.
Top takeaways:
How neural networks and algorithms sparked her love for the human brain
The critical distinction between dementia and Alzheimer’s disease
Recent advancements in understanding amyloid beta and tau proteins
The role of lifestyle, hormones, and genetic factors in preventing dementia
The influence of sex differences and hormone levels on neurodegenerative risk
The impact of sleep, inflammation, and infections like shingles on brain aging
Emerging research on preventative strategies, including vaccines and supplements like creatine
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00:49:55
Apr 19, 2026
In this episode of You Are Not Broken, Dr. Kelly Casperson sits down with physical therapist Dr. Lisa Moore, an expert in bone health, for a conversation that reframes how we think about osteoporosis—from something to fear… to something we can actively influence.
If you’ve ever been told to “be careful” or “avoid injury” without being given a clear path forward, this episode is your antidote. Dr. Moore brings clarity, science, and practicality to a topic that is often clouded by confusion and limitation.
Why physical therapists are essential to bone health
Physical therapists are uniquely trained in the musculoskeletal system—bones, muscles, and joints. Dr. Moore explains how this expertise allows them to guide patients not just in recovery, but in building strength, resilience, and confidence in their bodies.
Working with women undergoing breast cancer treatment, Dr. Moore saw firsthand how certain therapies increase the risk of osteoporosis and fractures. Instead of accepting this as inevitable, she pursued deeper education and now empowers women with actionable strategies to protect and rebuild their bone health.
Why balance training is non-negotiable
Most fractures don’t happen because bones are weak alone—they happen because people fall. Dr. Moore shares why dynamic balance training (not just standing on one foot) is critical, and how practicing real-life movement scenarios can dramatically reduce fall risk.
The underrated power of… power training
Strength is important—but strength plus speed is what keeps you from falling. Power training helps your body react quickly and effectively, which is essential for maintaining independence and longevity.
Why your starting point doesn’t matter as much as you think
Dr. Moore emphasizes the principle of initial values: those starting at a lower baseline often see the greatest gains. Translation? It’s never too late to start, and your body is more adaptable than you’ve been led to believe.
How to stay active without rigidity (even while traveling)
Fitness doesn’t have to mean perfection. Dr. Moore shares how she balances structured workouts with joyful movement like hiking and swimming—reminding us that consistency over time matters more than any single workout.
The truth about osteoporosis: it’s not fixed
One of the most empowering takeaways—bone health is dynamic. With the right interventions, you can improve bone density, strength, and function. This is not a one-way street.
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00:42:39
Apr 12, 2026
In this episode of You Are Not Broken, I sit down with Dr. Sunny Smith — physician, coach, and fierce advocate for women in medicine — for a conversation that felt both deeply personal and urgently necessary.
We talk about the transformative power of coaching and why so many high-achieving women still struggle with self-doubt. If you’ve ever downplayed your accomplishments, hesitated to speak up in a room full of men, or questioned whether you’re “expert enough,” this episode is for you.
Dr. Smith and I share personal stories from our own careers that highlight the subtle (and not-so-subtle) gender dynamics embedded in medical culture. We explore how women physicians are often socialized to overwork, over-give, and under-claim their authority — and how that conditioning impacts not only our careers, but our health.
This conversation is about agency.
It’s about recognizing that your thoughts create your feelings, your feelings drive your actions, and your actions determine your results. If you believe you’re “not ready,” you’ll play small. If you believe you belong, you’ll act differently — and the world will respond differently.
We also talk about:
Why coaching works (especially for high-achieving professionals)
How women are conditioned to minimize their expertise
The cost of self-abandonment in medicine
Gender bias in healthcare — both as physicians and as patients
What it actually means to advocate for yourself
Why questioning limiting beliefs is a radical act
The ripple effect of empowered women physicians
This episode isn’t about blaming the system. It’s about understanding it — and then deciding who you want to be inside of it.
Because when women own their expertise, take up space, and stop apologizing for their ambition, everything changes — for us, for our patients, and for medicine itself.
You are not broken.
You are powerful.
And you’re allowed to act like it.
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00:56:30
Apr 05, 2026
In this episode of You Are Not Broken, I sit down with Dr. Lisa Miller — psychologist, researcher, and author — to talk about something we don’t discuss enough in medicine: spirituality as a measurable, protective force in women’s lives.
Not religion.
Not dogma.
But spirituality — the innate human capacity to feel connected, guided, and held in meaning.
And friends… this one is powerful.
Dr. Miller shares the science behind spirituality, including data showing that an active spiritual life can dramatically reduce the risk of depression, substance use, and hopelessness. We talk about how spirituality isn’t fluffy — it’s neurologically real, biologically protective, and especially alive in women.
I loved this conversation because it reframes struggle. So many of us think our hardest seasons mean we’re broken. What if they’re actually the doorway?
We discuss:
Why every woman is a Ferrari — powerful, finely tuned, and built for depth
The research showing spirituality cuts depression and addiction risk
How crisis can become spiritual awakening
The concept of “high counsel” — the guidance that is available to us when we’re willing to listen
Why engaging with our feelings (instead of bypassing them) is the path forward
The unique spiritual intelligence women carry
Why men often struggle differently in their spiritual development
Post-traumatic spiritual growth
And how to cultivate your innate spirituality without subscribing to anyone else’s rulebook
One of my favorite takeaways?
Spirituality isn’t something you earn. It’s something you remember.
We talk about how women are often socialized to disconnect from their inner voice — from intuition, from knowing. Reconnecting to that voice is not indulgent. It’s medicine.
This episode isn’t about telling you what to believe.
It’s about reminding you that you are wired for meaning.
And that you are never alone in your becoming.
If you’ve been walking through something hard…
If you’ve felt unmoored…
If you’ve wondered whether there’s something more…
This conversation is for you.
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00:49:20
Mar 29, 2026
In this episode of You Are Not Broken, I sit down with Dr. Kate White and Jay White to talk about something we don’t discuss enough: what actually happens to marriages in midlife.
Because midlife isn’t just hot flashes and hormones. It’s identity shifts. Career pivots. Aging parents. Changing bodies. Evolving desire. And if we don’t talk about it, it can quietly unravel connection.
We explore how hormonal changes — especially in perimenopause and menopause — can significantly impact intimacy, mood, and relational dynamics. When libido shifts or sex becomes uncomfortable, couples often misinterpret it as rejection instead of biology. That misunderstanding creates distance.
We talk about how communication — real, vulnerable, scheduled communication — is essential. Not just “How was your day?” but “How are we doing?” So many couples assume the other person should just know what they need. They don’t. Curiosity is a skill.
We also discuss:
Why midlife is often framed negatively — but can actually be deeply transformative
The common pattern of women initiating divorce when they feel unseen or unheard
The difference between sex and intimacy — and why emotional closeness fuels physical connection
How counseling can create a safe space to untangle resentment and rebuild trust
Why adapting to change — instead of resisting it — is key to long-term partnership
One of the most powerful themes of this episode is that midlife doesn’t destroy marriages. Silence does.
When couples understand what’s happening — hormonally, emotionally, relationally — they can respond with compassion instead of blame.
Marriage in midlife requires evolution. It requires honesty. It requires both people staying curious about who their partner is becoming.
And when that happens? Midlife can be a season of deeper connection — not disconnection.
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00:57:34
Mar 22, 2026
In this episode of You Are Not Broken, I sit down with urologist Dr. Una Lee to talk about what women actually need in midlife care — and why the system still makes it so hard to get.
We dive into the importance of patient-centered research — studying what truly matters to women: quality of life, sexual health, urinary symptoms, and comfort. If we don’t measure those things, we miss the point.
We also discuss the removal of the boxed warning language on vaginal estrogen and how correcting misinformation has already improved prescribing and access. Fear limited care for years. Data changes that.
We cover:
Why education on vaginal estrogen and GSM is essential
The research gap in testosterone therapy for women
The importance of pelvic floor physical therapy as first-line care
Informed consent and nuance in surgical conversations
Ongoing barriers to hormonal access
The big theme? Women are living longer — and our healthcare system needs to evolve with them.
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00:52:08
Mar 15, 2026
Today I talk with the producers, directors and star (Cindy Eckert) of The Pink Pill out on Paramount +
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Cindy Eckert: @cindypinkceoExecutive Producers: Julie Bristow (Catalyst), Abby Greensfelder (Everywoman Studios), Vibika Bianchi, Aisling Chin-Yee and Joanna Griffiths (Knix).
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00:30:56
Mar 08, 2026
In this episode of You Are Not Broken, I sit down with Susan Guidi — and this conversation is such a beautiful reminder that it is never too late to become who you were meant to be.
Susan shares her journey growing up in a Cuban Catholic family, where cultural expectations around marriage, sexuality, and identity were very clear — and very rigid. We talk about how those early narratives shape the way we see ourselves as women… and how hard it can be to untangle them later in life.
After a difficult divorce, Susan didn’t shrink.
She expanded.
She reinvented herself through stand-up comedy (yes, really) and eventually stepped onto a bodybuilding stage — proving that transformation isn’t reserved for the young. It’s reserved for the brave.
We talk about:
How culture influences the stories we believe about ourselves
Why comedy can be deeply therapeutic
What it takes to compete in bodybuilding later in life
The power of community support during major life transitions
Why mindset matters more than motivation
The role of nutrition in strength and longevity
Redefining your identity after divorce, career shifts, or midlife change
Why sharing your story can liberate someone else
This episode is about empowerment — not the fluffy kind, but the earned kind. The kind that comes from taking control of your health, your body, your voice, and your future.
Susan is living proof that you are not too old, too late, too divorced, too inexperienced, or too anything.
You are just in the middle of becoming.
If this conversation resonates, share it with a woman who needs to hear that reinvention is still on the table.
Because it is.
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00:58:52
Mar 01, 2026
On today's episode I review the 2026 ISSWSH conference, sharing insights on women's sexual health, hormone therapy, and recent research developments. This episode covers upcoming events, new products, and key takeaways from the conference, providing valuable knowledge for clinicians and women alike.
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00:40:38
Feb 22, 2026
Episode 359: Midlife Muscle, Mindset & The M-Factor with Alicia Erickson
This week on You Are Not Broken, I’m joined by the strong, grounded, and refreshingly honest Alicia Erickson for a conversation about midlife reinvention — from hormones to heavy lifting.
We talk about the real-life impact of perimenopause (and why projects like The M Factor: Shredding the Silence on Menopause matter), Alicia’s decision to get sober at 45, and what happens when women stop shrinking and start building — muscle, boundaries, and belief in themselves.
Alicia shares her journey into strength training, progressive overload, and even stepping on a bikini competition stage — not for validation, but for growth. We break down body recomposition (yes, you can build muscle and lose fat at the same time), the critical role of sleep, and how hormone replacement therapy can dramatically shift quality of life in midlife.
This is a conversation about doing hard things on purpose.
About eating enough.
About lifting heavy.
About community.
About deciding your second half will be stronger than your first.
You are not broken. You might just need a barbell.
Why perimenopause feels chaotic — and what’s actually happening hormonally
Alicia’s sobriety journey and the connection between alcohol, mental health, and midlife
Why strength training is non-negotiable for women over 40
Progressive overload explained simply
Sleep as the foundation for body composition
Hormone replacement therapy and quality of life
Body recomposition: burning fat while building muscle
Eating more (not less) to support muscle growth
The mindset shift from “smaller” to “stronger”
The power of community and doing hard things together
If this episode resonates, share it with a woman in your life who needs permission to take up space — in the gym, in her body, and in her life.
Because midlife isn’t the beginning of decline.
It’s the beginning of power.
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00:45:38
Feb 15, 2026
This week on You Are Not Broken, I sit down with breast oncologist and historian Dr. Elizabeth Comen to talk about her powerful book All in Her Head and the long, complicated history of how women’s health has been misunderstood, minimized, and medicalized.
If you’ve ever been told your symptoms are anxiety… stress… hormones… or just part of being a woman — this episode is for you.
We explore the historical roots of dismissal in women’s healthcare and how those patterns still show up today, especially in cancer care. Dr. Comen walks us through how breast cancer treatment has evolved, what we’ve gotten right, what we’ve gotten wrong, and why quality of life must be part of the conversation — not an afterthought.
We also talk about:
Why women’s pain has historically been labeled “hysteria”
How medical bias still affects diagnosis and treatment
The real tension between longevity and quality of life
Hormonal therapies in breast cancer — and how nuance gets lost
Why advocacy matters more than ever
The double-edged sword of social media and AI in health information
How understanding medical history helps us build better medicine today
This episode isn’t about blaming the past. It’s about understanding it — so we stop repeating it.
Because when women are dismissed, care suffers.
And when women are informed, everything changes.
If you care about evidence-based medicine, health equity, and empowering women with real information — this is a must-listen.
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00:39:40
Feb 08, 2026
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If you’ve been waiting for a vibrator that’s anatomy-informed, safety-first, and designed with real female physiology in mind, this is for you.
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Pleasure is not a luxury. It’s part of health care.
What if pleasure wasn’t mysterious, shameful, or something women were expected to “figure out on their own”?
In this episode of You Are Not Broken, Dr. Kelly Casperson is joined by Lara Pack to talk about the launch of their new vibrator, Explorer—and more importantly, the science, safety, and education behind it.
It’s a grounded, evidence-based conversation about female arousal, blood flow, anatomy, consent, and why most women were never taught how their bodies actually work. Kelly and Lara walk listeners through why Explorer was designed the way it was, what makes a vibrator safe (and unsafe), and how pleasure tools can support—not replace—intimacy, connection, and sexual health.
They also tackle common myths around vibrators, including fears about dependency, partner insecurity, and “doing it wrong,” while reframing pleasure as a learnable, normal, and empowering part of healthcare.
If you’ve ever felt confused, embarrassed, or under-educated about pleasure—or wondered how to talk about it with a partner—this episode is for you.
What We Cover
Why Explorer was designed for external pleasure—no penetration required
The role of blood flow and arousal in sexual comfort, desire, and response
Why consent matters in every relationship, no matter how long you’ve been together
How vibrators can support sexual health, healing, and confidence
The importance of anatomical accuracy and comfort in vibrator design
How to talk with a partner about using pleasure tools without shame or defensiveness
Why vibrators are not a “replacement” for partners—but a supplement to connection
Safety, materials, and why quality matters when it comes to intimate products
How sex education gaps leave women blaming themselves instead of the system
Why sexual wellness is a lifelong learning process—not something you’re born knowing
Key Takeaway
Pleasure isn’t frivolous.
It’s physiological.
It’s learnable.
And it belongs to you.
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01:06:10
Feb 01, 2026
This week I sit down with Autumn Calabrese to talk about fitness, mindset, and stress management—especially as they relate to women in midlife. We explore how hormonal changes can affect energy, recovery, motivation, and overall health, and why many women find that the fitness strategies that once worked no longer feel effective or sustainable.
We also discuss how women’s fitness culture has evolved over time, shifting away from extremes and toward a more balanced, realistic approach that prioritizes consistency over perfection. This episode highlights why managing stress is just as important as working out, and how nutrition, quality sleep, and community support play foundational roles in long-term wellness.
At its core, this conversation is an invitation to reframe fitness as a tool for resilience, strength, and vitality—not punishment—and to encourage women to embrace change, stay consistent, and prioritize their health through every season of midlife.
Fitness helps support warmth, energy, and resilience, especially during winter
Mindset is a major driver of sustainable fitness and health habits
Stress management is essential for overall health in midlife
Hormonal changes can significantly impact women’s physical and mental well-being
Fitness culture is evolving toward balance rather than extremes
Consistency in workouts leads to better long-term health outcomes
Nutrition is a cornerstone of a healthy lifestyle
Quality sleep is critical for recovery and overall well-being
Embracing change can transform the midlife experience
Community and accountability enhance motivation and long-term commitment
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00:50:18
Jan 25, 2026
In this episode of the You Are Not Broken podcast, Dr. Kelly Casperson sits down with Dr. Gabrielle Lyon for a powerful, science-forward conversation about why muscle is the organ of longevity—and why women have been taught to focus on the wrong things for decades.
They unpack how an overemphasis on fat loss has distracted from the far more important goal of preserving and building muscle, especially as we age. Dr. Lyon explains anabolic resistance, protein needs across the lifespan, and why mindset—not willpower—is often the missing link in women’s fitness and health outcomes.
This episode reframes strength training, nutrition, and supplements as essential medical tools—not aesthetic choices—and delivers a clear message: women deserve better education about their bodies and the confidence to train for strength, not shrinkage.
Why muscle is critical for metabolic health, protection, and aging well
How the obsession with fat loss has undermined women’s long-term health
The role of mindset in body recomposition and sustainable fitness
Why protein intake matters more than calorie restriction
What anabolic resistance is—and why protein needs increase with age
How the “fit fat” phenotype challenges outdated health metrics
When continuous glucose monitoring is helpful (and when it’s not)
Why many women over 65 are protein deficient—and why that matters
The role of supplements like creatine and essential amino acids
Why strength training is a non-negotiable for women’s health
Muscle is not about appearance—it’s about independence, resilience, and metabolic health. Women have been under-informed, under-fueled, and under-trained for far too long. Prioritizing strength is one of the most powerful health decisions a woman can make at any age.
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00:47:16
Jan 18, 2026
In this episode of the You Are Not Broken, Dr. Kelly Casperson is joined by Joanna Strober, CEO of MIDI Health, for a direct and hopeful conversation about menopause care, hormone therapy, and what women actually need from the healthcare system.
Joanna shares the story behind building MIDI Health and why access, education, and properly trained providers are essential to closing the massive gaps in menopause care. Despite the data, only a small fraction of eligible women are receiving hormone therapy—leaving millions undertreated, dismissed, or told to simply “push through.”
This episode tackles outdated narratives around menopause, reframes hormones as foundational to long-term health and longevity, and makes a strong case for advocacy—by clinicians, companies, and women themselves.
How MIDI Health is delivering hormone therapy to 25,000 women each week
Why only ~5% of women over 40 are currently using hormone therapy
The critical need for education and training in menopause care
How hormone therapy can help prevent downstream health issues
Why menopause care doesn’t end when periods stop
What’s broken in women’s healthcare—and how to fix it
Real patient success stories that show what’s possible
The role of hormones in longevity, vitality, and overall health
Why advocacy is essential for meaningful change
MIDI Health’s vision to become a trusted, national brand for women’s health
Menopause is not the end of care—it’s the beginning of a new phase that deserves attention, education, and evidence-based treatment. Hormone therapy isn’t about vanity or “anti-aging”; it’s about giving women access to the healthcare they’ve always deserved.
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00:51:38
Jan 11, 2026
In this episode of the You Are Not Broken podcast, Dr. Kelly Casperson sits down with Dr. Christine Maren to explore one of the most under-recognized truths about women’s bodies: female physiology is exceptionally adaptable—and that adaptability comes with trade-offs.
Women’s bodies evolved to support reproduction, and that evolutionary priority shaped a physiology that can adjust rapidly to stress, environment, and demand. But that same flexibility can come at a cost, especially in today’s world of chronic stress, environmental exposures, and constant pressure.
Together, Dr. Casperson and Dr. Maren unpack how this rapid adaptability may contribute to issues like thyroid dysfunction, hormone imbalance, gut disruption, and infertility—and why understanding these patterns is essential for improving women’s health care.
Why female physiology is uniquely adaptable—and how reproduction shaped that design
How rapid physiological adaptation can stress systems like the thyroid
The links between chronic stress, hormones, gut health, and fertility
How environmental factors interact with women’s biology
Why adaptability can be both a powerful strength and a vulnerability
The importance of recognizing these trade-offs in modern women’s health care
Women’s bodies are not “broken.” They are highly responsive systems doing exactly what they evolved to do—often in environments that no longer support them. Understanding the costs of adaptation is the first step toward more compassionate, effective, and science-based care.
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01:02:52
Jan 04, 2026
This is the audio from an amazing webinar I did with Alloy Health. I was so fortunate to be interviewed by their community leader, Rachel Hughes.
What I’m seeing clearly is that Gen X is leading the menopause conversation — we’re asking better questions, demanding better answers, and refusing to be dismissed.
At the same time, Millennials are shifting the focus toward prevention, not just treating disease after it shows up. That mindset matters, and it’s changing healthcare.
I talk a lot about why self-care isn’t indulgent — it’s essential if you want to thrive in midlife and beyond. That starts with education. You cannot make informed decisions about your body if no one ever taught you how hormones actually work.
Hormones are not just reactive tools — they can be preventative, supporting long-term health when used thoughtfully and appropriately. Progesterone and testosterone play real, meaningful roles in women’s health, and vaginal estrogen is both safe and incredibly effective for many women — despite how rarely it’s discussed.
We also have to talk about sex. Communication is foundational to a fulfilling sex life in midlife, and silence only benefits outdated narratives, not women.
The bottom line? You have more control over your health than you’ve been led to believe. Empowerment doesn’t come from perfection — it comes from understanding your body and advocating for yourself in a system that often won’t do it for you.
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00:51:22
Dec 28, 2025
In this episode of the You Are Not Broken podcast, Kelly Casperson and Dr. Mariza Snyder discuss the transformative journey of women navigating perimenopause and menopause. Dr. Mariza shares her personal experiences with chronic migraines and how they led her to become a functional medicine practitioner focused on women's health. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding hormonal changes, the impact of chronic stress, and the necessity of movement and nutrition in reclaiming health. Dr. Mariza encourages women to envision their future selves and take ownership of their health journeys, while also addressing the societal pressures that contribute to stress and unhealthy habits.
Takeaways
Dr. Mariza's journey from chiropractic to functional medicine was driven by her own health struggles.
Chronic migraines often affect women in perimenopause due to hormonal changes.
Empowering women through health can create a multiplier effect in communities.
Movement is essential for recovery and overall well-being.
Functional health practitioners focus on root causes rather than just symptoms.
Women often feel pressured to be busy, which can lead to chronic stress.
Adrenal fatigue is not a recognized medical diagnosis, but stress impacts health significantly.
Nutrition plays a crucial role in managing health, especially regarding processed sugars.
Insulin resistance is a growing concern for women in midlife.
Reading and self-education can empower individuals to take control of their health.
Dr. Snyder IG
The Perimenopause Revolution
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