In this episode of the Bonus Series, we’re cutting through the BS and breaking down why saying yes when you mean no isn’t kindness – it’s self-abandonment. I share my own story of overcommitting (hello burnout), the science behind approval-seeking, and how it screws with your nervous system, energy, and self-trust.We unpack:The social and neurological reasons we avoid saying noWhy your fake yes is slowly burning you outThe real cost of emotional suppression and cognitive dissonanceTools to recognise a truthful yes vs. an obligation yesSmall ways to practice honest communication and build that backbonePLUS: Your weekly DARE to practice saying no (without the guilt hangover).Need backup as you start flexing your no muscle? Join us in Dare Club – the place for bold, honest women who are done shrinking.Follow, share, and tag @SheWhoDaresWins – and let us know what you said no to this week! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.