
You’re a woman on the cusp of “retirement” naturally feeling some anxiety. We are two financial planners who take this subject seriously (but ourselves less so). We will help you feel more confident about your choices by cutting through the myths and mysteries. Through conversations and interviews with both subject-experts and women who have gone through what you are approaching, you will have the correct information and motivation to be in control of your future.
May 15, 2025
“We’re talking about giving space to practice. Not only practice the relationships but also practice managing money.” -Sean Maher Most people plan their estate down to the last dollar, but forget to prepare for the emotional fallout that almost always comes from a lack of proper communication between family members. Our hosts, Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines, sit down with husband and wife team Sean and Jill Maher to talk about their book The Greatest Gift: 9 Principles for the Transfer of Your Legacy Along with Your Wealth, which journeys into the emotional side of passing down wealth and family legacy. The idea for the book came after Sean, a financial advisor, saw a well-planned inheritance fall apart when a family started fighting after their parents passed. He brought the issue home to Jill, a mental health counselor, who pointed out that what he was really seeing wasn’t a planning problem—it was grief. Together, they’ve come up with nine key principles that help families avoid drama and stay connected regarding inheritance. The big takeaway? It’s not just about the money. No matter how much (or little) you're passing on, what matters most is communication, shared values, and emotional safety. Jill and Sean suggest families start having small, low-pressure meetings early, while everyone’s still around to talk things through. It’s about creating space for honest conversations, building trust, and setting expectations. Their advice blends practical planning with emotional wisdom, encouraging people to treat legacy as a relationship, not just a transaction. At the heart of it all, their message is simple: don’t avoid the tough conversations—have them, and carry them out with love. Key Topics: Why Sean and Jill Wrote The Greatest Gift (00:49) “You’re Passing on Not Just Money, But Also Legacy” (04:33) How to Set Up and Facilitate the Inheritance Conversation with a Family (10:22) Setting Expectations Upfront to Nip Objections in the Bud (21:07) Why Sharing Your Story is So Critical (28:52) Nurturing Independence (35:53) Creating a Safe Environment for Your Children (45:49) Resources: The Greatest Gift Book USE COUPON CODE: takebackretirement for $5 off and free shipping! If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:51
Apr 30, 2025
"In a blended family, fairness and mutual understanding are key, especially when navigating the complexities of prenuptial and postnuptial agreements.” -Donna Kendrick Navigating love after loss or divorce comes with a host of emotional and financial complexities, especially when blending families. Our hosts, Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines, speak with Donna Kendrick, a financial planner who has lived through these transitions herself. After losing her husband unexpectedly, Donna rebuilt her life and career with a mission to help families in flux—widows, divorcées, and newly blended households. She shares how combining lives means combining financial baggage too, from income disparities and home equity dilemmas to prenups, life insurance, and estate planning. Donna’s candid story highlights the power of transparency and empathy in financial conversations, especially when trust has been tested. Her advice? Begin with individual clarity—define your needs, wants, and non-negotiables—then collaborate with your partner. Donna emphasizes the importance of communication, fairness, and ongoing adjustment as life evolves. Her blend of financial savvy and emotional wisdom offers a powerful reminder: managing money in remarriage is less about spreadsheets and more about mutual understanding. Key Topics: Donna Kendrick’s Story (00:00) Reprioritizing Your Beneficiaries in a Blended Family (12:30) Why Donna Decided to Remarry (16:01) Letting Your Kids Know About Their Future Financial Realities (21:16) Factors When Considering Remarriage (27:28) What Donna Did Wrong During the Process (and What She Did Right) (32:18) Key Takeaways (37:31) Resources: Connect with Donna Widow, Wisdom & Wealth Podcast Take Back Retirement Ep 109: Remarriage & Money: Janice Guinn Joins the Conversation on Love, Legalities, and Life Planning If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:42
Apr 16, 2025
Our hosts Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines sit down with Steve and Jill Marshall of Silver Path Consulting to discuss all things future care, from housing, to finance, to family support. Jill and Steve lament the current lack of societal preparedness for a growing senior population, often referred to as a “silver tsunami” that’s growing bigger each year. They stress the importance of starting early discussions about aging within families, the benefits and drawbacks of different living arrangements, and an effective way to handle comprehensive information and resource management between the adult children of aging parents. The Marshalls also discuss essential legal documents like wills, durable power of attorney, and healthcare power of attorney. Drawing from the recent tragic situation around the passing of Gene Hackman and his wife, they also discuss some technological solutions that adult children can use to facilitate elder care and the value of expert consultation to provide neutral, third-party advice that can ease family tensions. Key Topics: Preparing for the Silver Tsunami (04:47) How to Talk About Future Living Arrangements with Your Aging Parents (10:39) Discussing the Costs of Future Care (17:00) Role Modeling to Your Children the Right Way to Prepare for Future Care (23:07) What Most People Overlook (28:06) Ensuring Everyone in the Family Has a Role (32:30) The Gene Hackman Case (38:53) Steps You Can Take Today to Secure Your Aging Parents’ Future (45:12) Resources: Silver Path Consulting Take Back Retirement Ep. 74: Taking Charge: Carol Marak’s Strategy for Solo Aging and Retirement Planning Take Back Retirement Ep. 83: Combatting Fraud and Protecting Your Financial Future with AARP’s Kathy Stokes If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:54
Apr 15, 2025
Our hosts Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines sit down with Steve and Jill Marshall of Silver Path Consulting to discuss all things future care, from housing, to finance, to family support. Jill and Steve lament the current lack of societal preparedness for a growing senior population, often referred to as a “silver tsunami” that’s growing bigger each year. They stress the importance of starting early discussions about aging within families, the benefits and drawbacks of different living arrangements, and an effective way to handle comprehensive information and resource management between the adult children of aging parents. The Marshalls also discuss essential legal documents like wills, durable power of attorney, and healthcare power of attorney. Drawing from the recent tragic situation around the passing of Gene Hackman and his wife, they also discuss some technological solutions that adult children can use to facilitate elder care and the value of expert consultation to provide neutral, third-party advice that can ease family tensions. Key Topics: Preparing for the Silver Tsunami (04:47) How to Talk About Future Living Arrangements with Your Aging Parents (10:39) Discussing the Costs of Future Care (17:00) Role Modeling to Your Children the Right Way to Prepare for Future Care (23:07) What Most People Overlook (28:06) Ensuring Everyone in the Family Has a Role (32:30) The Gene Hackman Case (38:53) Steps You Can Take Today to Secure Your Aging Parents’ Future (45:12) Resources: Silver Path Consulting Take Back Retirement Ep. 74: Taking Charge: Carol Marak’s Strategy for Solo Aging and Retirement Planning Take Back Retirement Ep. 83: Combatting Fraud and Protecting Your Financial Future with AARP’s Kathy Stokes If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:54
Apr 04, 2025
Congratulations on your remarriage! How do you ensure that your finances are in order as you step into this next phase of your life? Our hosts Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines explore the vital legal and financial considerations of remarriage, from beneficiary designations to tax implications, with guidance from fellow Financial Planner at Sofia Financial, Janice Guinn! There are legal considerations aplenty when deciding between cohabitation and remarriage. Money talks can often be the elephant in the room, but they're essential for maintaining harmony in marriage. A partner's reluctance to engage in these conversations could be a red flag. Financial transparency is key to building a healthy and lasting partnership. Our hosts also get into the nitty-gritty on taxes and retirement plans, trusts and long-term care, as well as pre and post-nuptial agreements! Key Topics: The Most Important Step: Discussing Your Goals and Expectations (04:10) Financial Obligations to Children and Parents When Remarrying (08:39) Joint or Separate Bank Accounts? (16:16) Long-Term Care as You Age (20:00) Estate Planning and Pre/Post-Nuptial Agreements (23:02) How Remarriage Impacts Your Taxes (31:12) “If You Are Under 60, Think Twice About Getting Remarried.” (41:06) Retirement Plans and Beneficiaries (45:00) To Marry or Cohabit? (55:55) What About Trusts? (1:00:22) Resources: Take Back Retirement Episode 66: Transform Your Relationship with Money: Lessons from Bari Tessler Take Back Retirement Episode 43: The Psychology of Money and Marriage with Special Guest Ed Coambs Take Back Retirement Episode 31: What the Heck is a Trust, and Why Might I Need One? If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:46
Mar 31, 2025
Congratulations on your remarriage! How do you ensure that your finances are in order as you step into this next phase of your life? Our hosts Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines explore the vital legal and financial considerations of remarriage, from beneficiary designations to tax implications, with guidance from fellow Financial Planner at Sofia Financial, Janice Guinn! There are legal considerations aplenty when deciding between cohabitation and remarriage. Money talks can often be the elephant in the room, but they're essential for maintaining harmony in marriage. A partner's reluctance to engage in these conversations could be a red flag. Financial transparency is key to building a healthy and lasting partnership. Our hosts also get into the nitty-gritty on taxes and retirement plans, trusts and long-term care, as well as pre and post-nuptial agreements! Key Topics: The Most Important Step: Discussing Your Goals and Expectations (04:10) Financial Obligations to Children and Parents When Remarrying (08:39) Joint or Separate Bank Accounts? (16:16) Long-Term Care as You Age (20:00) Estate Planning and Pre/Post-Nuptial Agreements (23:02) How Remarriage Impacts Your Taxes (31:12) “If You Are Under 60, Think Twice About Getting Remarried.” (41:06) Retirement Plans and Beneficiaries (45:00) To Marry or Cohabit? (55:55) What About Trusts? (1:00:22) Resources: Take Back Retirement Episode 66: Transform Your Relationship with Money: Lessons from Bari Tessler Take Back Retirement Episode 43: The Psychology of Money and Marriage with Special Guest Ed Coambs Take Back Retirement Episode 31: What the Heck is a Trust, and Why Might I Need One? If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:46
Mar 14, 2025
There is no one right way to retire. Even if you don’t do everything you had hoped to do, you can still build a plan so that you can do more of the things you want and less of the stuff you don’t. In this episode, we’re Taking Back Retirement by redefining the old image and definition of this phase of life. Our hosts Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines break it down in this rerun episode dating back to episode 2 from 2020. Key topics: Redefining Retirement to What YOU Want to do (02:12) When Things Don’t Go According to Plan (07:34) How Technology is Changing Retirement (10:19) Being Realistic (12:24) Other Ways You Can Make Money While Retired (14:05) Preparing for Your #2ndHalfPlan (15:31) If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:18
Mar 14, 2025
There is no one right way to retire. Even if you don’t do everything you had hoped to do, you can still build a plan so that you can do more of the things you want and less of the stuff you don’t. In this episode, we’re Taking Back Retirement by redefining the old image and definition of this phase of life. Our hosts Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines break it down in this rerun episode dating back to episode 2 from 2020. Key topics: Redefining Retirement to What YOU Want to do (02:12) When Things Don’t Go According to Plan (07:34) How Technology is Changing Retirement (10:19) Being Realistic (12:24) Other Ways You Can Make Money While Retired (14:05) Preparing for Your #2ndHalfPlan (15:31) If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:18
Mar 04, 2025
“It's nice to get millions when you're 65, but wouldn't it be better if you gave [your children], say, 10s of 1000s when they are in their 20s and 30s?” -Meir Statman Our hosts, Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines, are joined by world-renowned behavioral finance expert Dr. Meir Statman to explore the intricate dance between human behavior and financial decision-making! Dr. Statman is a pioneer in the world of behavioral finance, currently serving as a professor and researcher at Santa Clara University. He attempts to understand how people make financial choices and how those choices are reflected in financial markets. Listen in as Dr. Statman unpacks the cognitive and emotional shortcuts we often take when making financial decisions, and challenges the traditional economic views that advocate for purely rational financial choices. He also introduces his latest book, "A Wealth of Wellbeing," which offers a human-centered approach to finance, and shares his personal journey from traditional to behavioral research–complete with anecdotes that bring his theories to life! “Spend money, don’t waste it.” Dr. Statman explores the link between our money mindset and wellbeing, drawing insights from sociology, psychology, and economics. He explains how we can align our aspirations with present realities, encouraging thoughtful sacrifices today for financial independence tomorrow. From pursuing your vocation, to engaging in meaningful philanthropy, to striking that elusive balance between saving and spending, Dr. Statman traces the path to a life well lived–not just in the quantity of years, but in their quality! Key Topics: Why Dr. Statman Wrote His New Book (00:00) Dividends Versus Capital Appreciation (07:09) The Connection Between Finance and Wellbeing (20:00) The Problem with Oversaving (29:31) How Much Self-Control Is Too Much? (38:48) “How About Our Four-Legged Friends?” (41:03) Addressing the Fear of Your Kids Dying Before You (48:51) How Society’s Attitude Towards Money Has Changed Over the Decades (56:27) Resources: Dr. Meir Statman on LinkedIn A Wealth of Well-Being (book) If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:56
Feb 28, 2025
“It's nice to get millions when you're 65, but wouldn't it be better if you gave [your children], say, 10s of 1000s when they are in their 20s and 30s?” -Meir Statman Our hosts, Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines, are joined by world-renowned behavioral finance expert Dr. Meir Statman to explore the intricate dance between human behavior and financial decision-making! Dr. Statman is a pioneer in the world of behavioral finance, currently serving as a professor and researcher at Santa Clara University. He attempts to understand how people make financial choices and how those choices are reflected in financial markets. Listen in as Dr. Statman unpacks the cognitive and emotional shortcuts we often take when making financial decisions, and challenges the traditional economic views that advocate for purely rational financial choices. He also introduces his latest book, "A Wealth of Wellbeing," which offers a human-centered approach to finance, and shares his personal journey from traditional to behavioral research–complete with anecdotes that bring his theories to life! “Spend money, don’t waste it.” Dr. Statman explores the link between our money mindset and wellbeing, drawing insights from sociology, psychology, and economics. He explains how we can align our aspirations with present realities, encouraging thoughtful sacrifices today for financial independence tomorrow. From pursuing your vocation, to engaging in meaningful philanthropy, to striking that elusive balance between saving and spending, Dr. Statman traces the path to a life well lived–not just in the quantity of years, but in their quality! Key Topics: Why Dr. Statman Wrote His New Book (00:00) Dividends Versus Capital Appreciation (07:09) The Connection Between Finance and Wellbeing (20:00) The Problem with Oversaving (29:31) How Much Self-Control Is Too Much? (38:48) “How About Our Four-Legged Friends?” (41:03) Addressing the Fear of Your Kids Dying Before You (48:51) How Society’s Attitude Towards Money Has Changed Over the Decades (56:27) Resources: Dr. Meir Statman on LinkedIn A Wealth of Well-Being (book) If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:56
Feb 20, 2025
Picture a world where your money isn't controlled by any government, but rather exists in the form of digital code. That's the idea behind Bitcoin and cryptocurrency, where freedom meets cryptography, and transactions are recorded transparently on a blockchain. But we get it–to those looking to add cryptocurrency to their portfolio, the subject of decentralized finance can be pretty intimidating. Our hosts, Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines break it down with special guest Marianne Borneman, founder of Access Tax Solutions, the home of Real Clear Tax Advice. They look into how Bitcoin differs from traditional money, dissecting its digital nature and the security measures you need to protect your assets. From choosing reputable digital wallets to setting up complex passwords, they guide us through safeguarding your investments in this new financial frontier. Understanding the tax implications of your Bitcoin transactions is essential to avoid unwanted surprises. Our hosts and Marianne share practical scenarios illustrating the importance of documenting every purchase and sale, and how using Bitcoin as a gift or payment can impact your tax obligations. Whether you hold physical assets or prefer investing through ETFs, they explain how these choices affect your tax strategy and what to watch out for in terms of legal and security challenges. Ever wondered what it takes to mine Bitcoin or why it's often compared to gold? They dive into all that, including where it actually derives value from. They explore the concept of scarcity and how collective belief underpins currency value, drawing parallels between Bitcoin and precious metals like gold. In wrapping, they discuss the most common frauds and scams to watch out for as you navigate the world of crypto! Key Topics: “What the Heck is Bitcoin?” (0:25) How Safe is Crypto? (07:50) How to Use Cryptocurrency (11:21) Crypto and Taxes (18:35) Owning Physical Assets Versus ETFs (30:16) Common Crypto Scams (33:36) Bitcoin Mining (47:41) When Does a Crypto Transaction Qualify as a Taxable Event? (54:51) Where Does Bitcoin Derive Value From? (59:58) Resources: Learn more about Kathleen Marianne Borneman and her services here If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:59
Feb 15, 2025
Picture a world where your money isn't controlled by any government, but rather exists in the form of digital code. That's the idea behind Bitcoin and cryptocurrency, where freedom meets cryptography, and transactions are recorded transparently on a blockchain. But we get it–to those looking to add cryptocurrency to their portfolio, the subject of decentralized finance can be pretty intimidating. Our hosts, Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines break it down with special guest Marianne Borneman, founder of Access Tax Solutions, the home of Real Clear Tax Advice. They look into how Bitcoin differs from traditional money, dissecting its digital nature and the security measures you need to protect your assets. From choosing reputable digital wallets to setting up complex passwords, they guide us through safeguarding your investments in this new financial frontier. Understanding the tax implications of your Bitcoin transactions is essential to avoid unwanted surprises. Our hosts and Marianne share practical scenarios illustrating the importance of documenting every purchase and sale, and how using Bitcoin as a gift or payment can impact your tax obligations. Whether you hold physical assets or prefer investing through ETFs, they explain how these choices affect your tax strategy and what to watch out for in terms of legal and security challenges. Ever wondered what it takes to mine Bitcoin or why it's often compared to gold? They dive into all that, including where it actually derives value from. They explore the concept of scarcity and how collective belief underpins currency value, drawing parallels between Bitcoin and precious metals like gold. In wrapping, they discuss the most common frauds and scams to watch out for as you navigate the world of crypto! Key Topics: “What the Heck is Bitcoin?” (0:25) How Safe is Crypto? (07:50) How to Use Cryptocurrency (11:21) Crypto and Taxes (18:35) Owning Physical Assets Versus ETFs (30:16) Common Crypto Scams (33:36) Bitcoin Mining (47:41) When Does a Crypto Transaction Qualify as a Taxable Event? (54:51) Where Does Bitcoin Derive Value From? (59:58) Resources: Learn more about Kathleen Marianne Borneman and her services here Take Back Retirement #83: Combatting Fraud and Protecting Your Financial Future with AARP’s Kathy Stokes If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:59
Jan 20, 2025
“It really does cost us in terms of our ability to learn about money, embrace failure, the mistakes that we made and we learn from them, to actually get closer to the people in our lives, whether that is our adult children, whether that's a partner, whether that's a friend. So there's a lot of ways in which money silence kind of keeps us locked up in a way that I don't think is useful.” - Kathleen Burns Kingsbury Our hosts Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines invite Kathleen Burns Kingsbury back to the show. She brings her invaluable expertise as a money mindset coach to discuss societal pressures women typically face regarding finances. With the re-release of her book "Breaking Money Silence," Kathleen offers fresh insights, focused on empowering women to break their silence around money discussions both in the home and the workplace. Kathleen kicks things off by exploring the psychological obstacles to financial empowerment. Roadblocks like guilt, fear of being seen as greedy, and imposter syndrome frequently obstruct the path to confidence for many women–and men. She reminds us that it's important to surround yourself with mentors and peers who respect individual needs and foster an environment free of money shame. It all begins with open and authentic conversations. Kathleen teaches that it’s important to build your own "financial dream team" that prioritizes relationships over sales. She unpacks the art of leveraging each partner’s strengths, in addition to open communication, in order to minimize money arguments and bring couples closer to their financial dreams! Key Topics: Why Kathleen is Re-Releasing “Breaking Money Silence” (3:16) “What is My Relationship with Money?” (7:14) How Do Your Financial Beliefs Serve or Sabotage You? (14:12) The Human Side of Finance (18:38) Building Financial Knowledge (26:10) Managing Money as a Couple (29:14) What About Single Women? (36:43) Resources: Learn more about Kathleen Burns Kingsbury and her services at www.kbkwealthconnection.com If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:46
Jan 15, 2025
“It really does cost us in terms of our ability to learn about money, embrace failure, the mistakes that we made and we learn from them, to actually get closer to the people in our lives, whether that is our adult children, whether that's a partner, whether that's a friend. So there's a lot of ways in which money silence kind of keeps us locked up in a way that I don't think is useful.” - Kathleen Burns Kingsbury Our hosts Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines invite Kathleen Burns Kingsbury back to the show. She brings her invaluable expertise as a money mindset coach to discuss societal pressures women typically face regarding finances. With the re-release of her book "Breaking Money Silence," Kathleen offers fresh insights, focused on empowering women to break their silence around money discussions both in the home and the workplace. Kathleen kicks things off by exploring the psychological obstacles to financial empowerment. Roadblocks like guilt, fear of being seen as greedy, and imposter syndrome frequently obstruct the path to confidence for many women–and men. She reminds us that it's important to surround yourself with mentors and peers who respect individual needs and foster an environment free of money shame. It all begins with open and authentic conversations. Kathleen teaches that it’s important to build your own "financial dream team" that prioritizes relationships over sales. She unpacks the art of leveraging each partner’s strengths, in addition to open communication, in order to minimize money arguments and bring couples closer to their financial dreams! Key Topics: Why Kathleen is Re-Releasing “Breaking Money Silence” (3:16) “What is My Relationship with Money?” (7:14) How Do Your Financial Beliefs Serve or Sabotage You? (14:12) The Human Side of Finance (18:38) Building Financial Knowledge (26:10) Managing Money as a Couple (29:14) What About Single Women? (36:43) Resources: Learn more about Kathleen Burns Kingsbury and her services at www.kbkwealthconnection.com If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:46
Dec 20, 2024
Volatility and recession and crashes! Oh, my! Today, our hosts Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines give their best strategies for successful investing when the world’s feeling dangerous. They kick things off with some pointers on riding out market ups and downs. It all comes down to sticking to a long-term investment plan, no matter what’s happening around you. Remember the 2008 financial crisis? Stephanie and Kevin talk about how markets always bounce back and why it’s best not to fret over the dramatic headlines. They also discuss ways to manage your wealth during short-term crises. It’s important to keep a nice stash of cash for those “just in case” moments, such as being between jobs or moving to a new city. Knowing your expenses inside and out is a big confidence booster, making you feel more in control when life throws those curveballs. Stephanie and Kevin also detail the importance of having open money talks with your family. Talking through retirement savings and possible inheritances with your loved ones can keep future surprises at bay. Our hosts wrap up by breaking down the difference between market sentiments vis à vis economic realities, hammering home the all-important lesson that investing is a marathon, not a sprint! Key Topics: A Note on Scary Headlines (00:00) The Market as a “Discounting Mechanism” (07:11) Knowing When to Cash Out and When to Reenter the Market (14:28) “How Bad Do You Really Think It’s Going to Get?” (19:19) Preparing for Short-Term Emergencies (22:09) Having Money Conversations with Your Loved Ones (29:45) Resources: Elm Wealth Crystal Ball Trading Game Take Back Retirement Ep 64: What is Money Insurance? Take Back Retirement Ep 66: Transform Your Relationship with Money: Lessons from Bari Tessler If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:33
Dec 16, 2024
Volatility and recession and crashes! Oh, my! Today, our hosts Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines give their best strategies for successful investing when the world’s feeling dangerous. They kick things off with some pointers on riding out market ups and downs. It all comes down to sticking to a long-term investment plan, no matter what’s happening around you. Remember the 2008 financial crisis? Stephanie and Kevin talk about how markets always bounce back and why it’s best not to fret over the dramatic headlines. They also discuss ways to manage your wealth during short-term crises. It’s important to keep a nice stash of cash for those “just in case” moments, such as being between jobs or moving to a new city. Knowing your expenses inside and out is a big confidence booster, making you feel more in control when life throws those curveballs. Stephanie and Kevin also detail the importance of having open money talks with your family. Talking through retirement savings and possible inheritances with your loved ones can keep future surprises at bay. Our hosts wrap up by breaking down the difference between market sentiments vis à vis economic realities, hammering home the all-important lesson that investing is a marathon, not a sprint! Key Topics: A Note on Scary Headlines (00:00) The Market as a “Discounting Mechanism” (07:11) Knowing When to Cash Out and When to Reenter the Market (14:28) “How Bad Do You Really Think It’s Going to Get?” (19:19) Preparing for Short-Term Emergencies (22:09) Having Money Conversations with Your Loved Ones (29:45) Resources: Elm Wealth Crystal Ball Trading Game Take Back Retirement Ep 64: What is Money Insurance? Take Back Retirement Ep 66: Transform Your Relationship with Money: Lessons from Bari Tessler If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:33
Dec 04, 2024
Our hosts Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines discuss the emotional side of money management with Meghan Dwyer, a Certified Financial Planner and the host of the "Money Isn't Scary" Podcast. Meghan's vision-mission is all about challenging societal norms and empowering women to take charge of their finances with confidence. She helps us uncover the hidden emotional influences that shape our financial decisions and shares her insights on moving from a mindset of fear to one of abundance. “How we earn our money is emotional,” says Meghan. “How we spend our money is emotional. How and why we save our money is emotional.” Our hosts and Meghan explore how our feelings around money are often inherited from past generations. Meghan emphasizes the importance of gaining clarity around, and processing, these emotional roots to make more informed money choices. She discusses the societal pressures of consumerism and the lack of financial education that can leave many feeling anxious or ashamed about their financial literacy. “Your relationship with money is parallel with your relationship with yourself.” Self-reflection helps us in aligning our financial decisions with personal values. Through practical exercises, Meghan teaches us how to identify our core values—whether it's family, adventure, or otherwise—and ensure our spending aligns with what truly matters to us. Meghan also stresses the importance of self-compassion, especially when our financial choices don't perfectly align with our values. She encourages us to embrace emotional triggers as tools for growth and to focus on what money can achieve in terms of our values, rather than just its numeric worth. Key Topics: What Stands in Our Way When It Comes to Financial Wellness? (3:36) “Money is Emotional!” (12:55) Minimizing Overwhelm When Beginning Your Money Healing Journey (19:28) The Importance of Knowing Your Values (24:55) Rewriting Our Money Stories and Beliefs (32:53) Avoiding the Comparison Trap (40:04) Stephanie and Kevin’s Key Takeaways (45:06) Resources: Money Isn’t Scary Podcast Money Isn’t Scary Website If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:46
Nov 30, 2024
Our hosts Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines discuss the emotional side of money management with Meghan Dwyer, a Certified Financial Planner and the host of the "Money Isn't Scary" Podcast. Meghan's vision-mission is all about challenging societal norms and empowering women to take charge of their finances with confidence. She helps us uncover the hidden emotional influences that shape our financial decisions and shares her insights on moving from a mindset of fear to one of abundance. “How we earn our money is emotional,” says Meghan. “How we spend our money is emotional. How and why we save our money is emotional.” Our hosts and Meghan explore how our feelings around money are often inherited from past generations. Meghan emphasizes the importance of gaining clarity around, and processing, these emotional roots to make more informed money choices. She discusses the societal pressures of consumerism and the lack of financial education that can leave many feeling anxious or ashamed about their financial literacy. “Your relationship with money is parallel with your relationship with yourself.” Self-reflection helps us in aligning our financial decisions with personal values. Through practical exercises, Meghan teaches us how to identify our core values—whether it's family, adventure, or otherwise—and ensure our spending aligns with what truly matters to us. Meghan also stresses the importance of self-compassion, especially when our financial choices don't perfectly align with our values. She encourages us to embrace emotional triggers as tools for growth and to focus on what money can achieve in terms of our values, rather than just its numeric worth. Key Topics: What Stands in Our Way When It Comes to Financial Wellness? (3:36) “Money is Emotional!” (12:55) Minimizing Overwhelm When Beginning Your Money Healing Journey (19:28) The Importance of Knowing Your Values (24:55) Rewriting Our Money Stories and Beliefs (32:53) Avoiding the Comparison Trap (40:04) Stephanie and Kevin’s Key Takeaways (45:06) Resources: Money Isn’t Scary Podcast Money Isn’t Scary Website If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:46
Nov 21, 2024
“Prevention is better than cure. Don't feel overwhelmed by all this. Would you remove your own kidney? You would go to a professional to get it done.” -Denise Appleby Renowned IRA and retirement plans expert Denise Appleby joins our hosts Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines for a crucial conversation on managing your retirement accounts effectively, especially as 2024 comes to a close. Having trained thousands of financial, tax, and legal professionals, Denise shares her invaluable insights on year-end retirement planning strategies, covering the complexities of Required Minimum Distributions (RMDs) and the potential pitfalls of rollovers. They talk about the challenges family members face when inheriting IRAs and handling 401(k) withdrawals, including those aged 73 and older. In addition to RMDs, they also cover Roth conversions and Qualified Charitable Distributions (QCDs), giving you much-needed clarity on suitability assessments and precise reporting needs. Denise explains the differences between transfers and rollovers, providing real-life examples of costly mistakes and IRS penalties that typically come from common misunderstandings. By sharing these cautionary tales, Denise demonstrates the importance of consulting knowledgeable financial advisors to guide you through these often-daunting processes, ensuring your retirement plan remains on track! Key Topics: How to Manage Your Retirement Accounts Before the Year Ends (3:38) Navigating IRS Publications and Regulations (10:18) What’s Eligible for a Rollover? (22:38) Understanding Beneficiary IRAs and R&D (27:30) Direct Versus Indirect Roth Conversions (38:28) A Primer on Qualified Charitable Distributions (46:42) Stephanie and Kevin’s Key Takeaways (59:45) Resources: DeniseAppleby.com Take Back Retirement Episode 12: What Women Need to Know About IRA’s, with Sarah Brenner Take Back Retirement Episode 20: Women + Roth IRA’s – What Should You Be Aware Of? Take Back Retirement Episode 58: Secure Act 2.0: New Retirement Account Rules, Same Old Message! Take Back Retirement Episode 78: The Essential Rules to Know When You Inherit an IRA If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
00:00:56
Nov 15, 2024
“Prevention is better than cure. Don't feel overwhelmed by all this. Would you remove your own kidney? You would go to a professional to get it done.” -Denise Appleby Renowned IRA and retirement plans expert Denise Appleby joins our hosts Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines for a crucial conversation on managing your retirement accounts effectively, especially as 2024 comes to a close. Having trained thousands of financial, tax, and legal professionals, Denise shares her invaluable insights on year-end retirement planning strategies, covering the complexities of Required Minimum Distributions (RMDs) and the potential pitfalls of rollovers. They talk about the challenges family members face when inheriting IRAs and handling 401(k) withdrawals, including those aged 73 and older. In addition to RMDs, they also cover Roth conversions and Qualified Charitable Distributions (QCDs), giving you much-needed clarity on suitability assessments and precise reporting needs. Denise explains the differences between transfers and rollovers, providing real-life examples of costly mistakes and IRS penalties that typically come from common misunderstandings. By sharing these cautionary tales, Denise demonstrates the importance of consulting knowledgeable financial advisors to guide you through these often-daunting processes, ensuring your retirement plan remains on track! Key Topics: How to Manage Your Retirement Accounts Before the Year Ends (3:38) Navigating IRS Publications and Regulations (10:18) What’s Eligible for a Rollover? (22:38) Understanding Beneficiary IRAs and R&D (27:30) Direct Versus Indirect Roth Conversions (38:28) A Primer on Qualified Charitable Distributions (46:42) Stephanie and Kevin’s Key Takeaways (59:45) Resources: DeniseAppleby.com Take Back Retirement Episode 12: What Women Need to Know About IRA’s, with Sarah Brenner Take Back Retirement Episode 20: Women + Roth IRA’s – What Should You Be Aware Of? Take Back Retirement Episode 58: Secure Act 2.0: New Retirement Account Rules, Same Old Message! Take Back Retirement Episode 78: The Essential Rules to Know When You Inherit an IRA If you like what you’ve been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com. Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn. Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.
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