What does it mean to design a life on your own terms? This conversation explores independence, identity, and redefining fulfillment. In this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, Jessica sits down with guest Lisa Holmes for a candid conversation. Together they explore the cultural energy of "Hot Auntie Summer" — a playful yet powerful idea that celebrates self-definition, joy, and autonomy outside traditional expectations. Some seasons of life call for rebuilding after hardship. Others invite bold ambition, creativity, or the courage to pursue new opportunities. This conversation reflects on how healing, boundaries, supportive relationships, and self-trust can guide us as we transition between these phases. Jessica and Ariele also discuss the cultural language of "eras"—a concept many people are using to describe moments of transformation and identity shifts—and how honoring these transitions can help us design lives that feel more aligned. Whether you are in a period of reflection, rebuilding, ambition, or reinvention, this episode invites you to consider: What era of life are you currently in? And what might your next era look like?   In This Episode We Discuss • How life transitions often happen in recognizable "eras" • Healing seasons after periods of burnout, loss, or major change • When hustle and ambition have a place—and when softness and rest are    needed • The role of boundaries, relationships, and community support during life transitions • How to recognize when it's time to shift into a new chapter of life • Why self-trust is essential when redefining your identity and direction   Jessica's Cozy Book Nook 📚 This episode's book recommendation: Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes In Year of Yes, television creator Shonda Rhimes shares her personal journey of saying "yes" to opportunities that challenged her fears and expanded her life. Her story explores how stepping outside of comfort zones can lead to profound personal growth, confidence, and transformation. If you enjoy the themes of stepping into new life eras and embracing change, this book offers a powerful companion to today's conversation. You can support local bookstores by purchasing through Jessica's Cozy Book Nook on Bookshop, or by checking the book out from your local library—many libraries also offer digital copies through apps like Libby or Hoopla. 👉 Jessica's Cozy Book Nook: https://bookshop.org/lists/jessica-s-cozy-book-nook   💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💌 Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica   Show Credits: Host: Jessica Jackson Produced by: Jessica & Ariele Edited by: Ariele