Why is decluttering so hard even when you know you’re ready to do it?In this tough-love episode, I walk you through the top 10 excuses that keep us stuck in clutter. From “I don’t have time” to “but it was expensive” to “it’s organized chaos,” I break each one down with research and stories, then shares the mindset shifts you can use to finally move forward.You’ll hear:The most common excuses we use to avoid declutteringWhy those excuses don’t hold up (backed by research)The new beliefs you can adopt to make decluttering possibleHow to create a calmer, more intentional home without guilt or overwhelmRemember: Beautiful Living isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being choosy, intentional, and free.📌 Download my Keep or Release Test → https://fireflybridge.com/thetest📚 Research & resources mentioned in this episode → We make time for what matters. The American Time Use Survey shows that people prioritize what they value most — so “no time” often means “not a priority yet.”👉 Read the surveyWhy we hold onto “someday” clothes. Psychologists call it projection bias: we overestimate how similar our future self will be to our current self. That’s why we keep jeans that don’t fit.👉 Read the study (PDF)Your future self feels like a stranger. Research shows we treat “future us” like a different person — which makes it easy to stash things “for later.”👉 Read moreClutter hurts your well-being. Studies link clutter with lower life satisfaction and less joy at home.👉 Study summaryWhy “but it was expensive!” keeps us stuck. The sunk cost fallacy makes us cling to bad investments — even when they don’t serve us anymore.👉 Original researchWhy we keep Aunt Maggie’s quilt. Studies show it’s not gratitude, but a sense of indebtedness, that makes us keep gifts we don’t actually want.👉 Gift-giving study👉 Gratitude & guilt studyClutter really does stress you out. Women who described their homes as cluttered had higher stress hormone patterns and worse moods across the day.👉 Read the studySelling clutter usually isn’t worth it. Most stuff nets pennies per hour after effort.👉 NYT articleYour brain hates visual clutter. A Yale study found that messy visual environments literally change how your braiGet on the wait list for my FREE class: 3 Steps to Painlessly Declutter your Kitchen in just a Weekend! This is how you get no-cry mornings and calm evenings in your kitchen. And I'll show you how you can do it in just a weekend without overwhelm and without getting stuck. And, of course, you'll learn how to make sure the clutter doesn't come back with minimal effort. Go to https://fireflybridge.com/update and get on the wait list!Connect with me:You can find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fireflybridgeorganizingHere's my website: https://fireflybridge.com Call or text me: 305-563-2292 Email me: zeenat@fireflybridge.com