You can't control the wind but you can control the sail . My guest on this episode is Nelson Tressler : His mother was just fifteen  when she was raped by a police offer and Nelson was conceived as a result of that action  Nelson's Grandfather stood trial and , facing a death penalty without the possibility of parole for committing a grievous  crime which led to the death of the police officer but with a testimony from his daughter (Nelson's mother) That the Police officer had raped her and she was pregnant with his (Police officer's child)The death penalty was withdrawn and Nelson's Grandfather was placed sentenced to Life Imprisonment . Nelson had to grow up with Prejudice and Stigma of knowing his grandfather shot and killed his biological father . He has used his own experience in a positive way to inspire other people in his memoir “ The Unlucky Sperm Club :You are Not a Victim of Your Circumstances but a Product of Your Choices,” He expresses the ups and downs he went through in his life both in his work life , Marriage and business . Nelsons encourages everyone to go after Progress not Perfection because no one is perfect  His app I got smarter is available via   IGOTSMARTER™ APP  This is a an episode not to miss ! Share with your friends and follow our page  https://pod.link/1522556528 for other places you will find more episodes of meade musing #NelsonTressler  #IGotSmarter #TheUnluckySpermClub  #Significance #BuildingABetterWorld #Gaana #Newsly #Applepodcast #Spotifypodcast Find The Meademusings Podcast on Newsly  USE promo code MEADEMUSINGS support us buymeacoffee/TheMeadeMusingsor paypal.me/meademusings